When Cool Peaked and Never Came Back

GenX or as I’d like to say it, Gen Us— wasn’t just a generation—it was an 18-wheeler doing a burnout in the parking lot of history while Rock Ballads blasted through the tape deck. It was loud, proud, and occasionally covered in glitter and neon zebra print.

Everybody—and I mean everybody—was there. Michael Jackson was moonwalking like the floor was infused with pomade. Nirvana and Pearl Jam showed up wearing flannel and acting like fame was a disease they caught from a dirty microphone. Axl Rose and the boys from Guns N’ Roses were screaming about rain in November like it canceled their beach day, and Sweet Child o’ Mine made every angsty teen feel like a misunderstood poet with a six-string.

Jon Bon Jovi, the man was riding into battle on a horse made of Aquanet and broken dreams, yelling Blaze of Glory like he’d personally survived three bar fights and a spaghetti Western. Kevin Costner was protecting Whitney Houston like the Secret Service guards the nuclear codes, and Whitney—good heavens, Whitney—sang “I Will Always Love You” and absolutely ignited our feelings.

Mariah Carey hadn’t gone full glitter diva yet—she still made you feel things, not just the urge to change the radio. Run DMC kicked the doors down in Adidas with no laces, started rap for the suburbs, and teamed up with Aerosmith, who looked like undead rock goblins, to tell us to walk and talk this way! And we did. Loudly. With attitude.

Rocky and Rambo. Same guy. Different flavors of awesome. One punched Russians in the snow to end the Cold War, the other took down entire armies with a knife and a bad attitude. While Arnold hunted down alien predators and cyborgs from the future while declaring “I’ll be back”. We didn’t need superheroes—we had Stallone and Schwarzenegger. Grit, sweat, and zero tolerance for nonsense.

I feel the need—the need for speed! Says Maverick and Goose—Jet engines, mirrored sunglasses, volleyball in jeans—it was a recruitment ad with abs. And yes, we wanted our MTV, back when it still played music and wasn’t just a circus of reality TV and emotional damage. We also had MacGyver—He was what happened when genius met duct tape and a Swiss Army knife and didn’t ask for permission.

Meanwhile, we were gaming like it was an Olympic sport. Personal computers were being born, but we were too busy ripping into Nintendo cartridges and laying waste to Street Fighter arcades. Sega, Atari—each console a plastic gateway to 8-bit greatness.

And just when you thought the dial couldn’t be cranked any further, in rolled Michael Jordan and the Dream Team. Not just a basketball team—The basketball team. The kind of squad that made other national teams forget why they showed up in the first place. Instead of playing defense, they were nudging the waterboy to snap a photo. “Never mind the scoreboard, just get me standing next to Barkley!” It wasn’t a game—it was a travelling masterpiece, only this artwork could slam dunk from the free-throw line while chewing gum and dominating.

Then space happened. Proper, chest-thumping space. America built space shuttles that came back. Columbia. Atlantis. Discovery. We cried for Challenger and her crew—everybody did—But then Endeavour soared into the skies with defiance and optimism. Proper machinery. Proper bravery.

The Berlin Wall came down like a mullet at a job interview—loud, awkward, and suddenly everyone claimed they’d never liked it to begin with. One day it was the Iron Curtain, the next it was souvenir rubble in your uncle’s man cave. In swaggered American ideals, wearing Levi’s, drinking Coca-Cola straight from the bottle, and quoting Die Hard like it was gospel. The Communist Soviet toppled over like a cow startled by fireworks—legs in the air and dignity nowhere to be found. Collapsed faster than a cheap lawn chair at an all-you-can-eat ribs contest. And the world? The world threw the biggest party since disco died—arms in the air, toasting for freedom and a front-row seat to history.

Then Iraq, in a moment of wildly misplaced confidence, decided to slap Kuwait. America didn’t flinch—it raised an eyebrow and said, “You want to run that by me again?” Moments later, stealth bombers took off with fighters behind them that looked like Batman’s side project for a midlife crisis. Sleek, dark and terrifying. Shock. Awe. We didn’t just bring the rain—we unleashed a precision-engineered hurricane with a point to prove. A backdrop to Desert Storm.

And yeah, they call us the last unreachable generation. Because we didn’t have smartphones? Please. We talked to people. With our mouths. We made eye contact like champions. We passed notes in class that had more soul than a thousand texts. We high-fived, we made mixtapes with actual tapes and bled ourselves into every moment. We prank-called pizza joints from landlines and risked everything for the thrill of hearing “Do you know what time it is, young man, young woman?”

So come on—tell me your stories. Your favorite moments. Your Saturday mornings, your late-night drives, your big, bold, beautiful memories.

Because Gen Us? We weren’t just a generation.

We were a montage.


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54 responses to “When Cool Peaked and Never Came Back”

  1. CJ Antichow Avatar
    CJ Antichow

    Love this (as a fellow Gen X’er of course).

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  2. michael raven Avatar

    If you get me started, you won’t get me to stop. Soooo, I’ll just read everyone else’s contributions 😉

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  3. krishnasmercy Avatar

    OMG, this is like the essay equivalent of “We Didn’t Start The Fire”. BTW, that could be included as something GenX experienced, as well, even being taught in our 6th grade English class.

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  4. Jax Riley Avatar

    Fellow Gen X’er here and not sure where to begin or if I’ll ever end if I do begin. This was a GEM of a post! Thanks for taking me back, put a smile on my face, man! Good times! Just for fun, this Gen X’er never wore flannel I was always the one (still am LOL) in the ripped Levi’s and the concert T of any given rock/metal band. I skipped the grunge phase & hid in my room with my BC Rich guitars waiting 😎

    One quick story- Ozzy was coming to Boston garden for the Diary of a Madman tour. A girl I knew from school was going, we were 14. I couldn’t very well say “My mum won’t let me go”, so of course the only appropriate answer was “Hell yeah! 🤘🏻” It was a Friday in April, my cousin was supposed to cover for me (supposed to-keyword here) What better way to spend a Friday night than sneaking into Boston to see your first rock concert? Apparently, my mother talked with my aunt that night at some point. I got in much too late, close to midnight I think when I go dropped off. And mum was waiting up for me 😳 “Why are you coming in so late?” I said Donna and I fell asleep studying” UH huh…. “And how did it go?” It went fine thanks. And where were my books? I left them at Donnas, it was late. I’ll walk over in the morning and get them. “Did you enjoy Ozzy?” My insides froze like ice. And I began to stutter 🤣 I didn’t go see Ozzy, we were studying for a science test or whatever the hell was coming up. I think it was the fact my mother did not get emotional but remained very calm that made me most nervous. She said she hoped I thoroughly enjoyed my night on the town because I was grounded for the next 75 years. She also forbade me from talking with Donna ever again. Technically I am still grounded, there’s still 18 years left on my punishment. Mom passed 22 years ago.

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Man, that was a great story! You seem to have lived the life! And your mum seems cool.
      Well, 18 years is all downhill from now, you’ll get there in the end ☺️. Thanks!

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      1. Jax Riley Avatar

        I was always a little rock & roll rebel from way back 🤣😎🎸 How my folks never put me in a in a military academy I’ll never know LOL. My mother was cool. Thanks for the trip down memory lane. you hit on all the good stuff!

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      2. AKings Avatar

        Thanks. Military Academy would’ve sucked, good thing you weren’t from Virginia where every street corner has one 😂.

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      3. Jax Riley Avatar

        It would have for sure. It just baffles me how my folks put up with me. Like either ship me off to a military academy or off with a rock band which obviously I would have been more suited for LOL

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      4. AKings Avatar

        I guess we all have our destinies. And rock and roll is sure is a good one. ☺️

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      5. Jax Riley Avatar

        👍🏻 I think it is too

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    2. krishnasmercy Avatar

      Wow, that’s an incredible story! It must be true that…you can’t kill rock n roll. It’s here to stay!

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      1. Jax Riley Avatar

        I’ve had an interesting journey LOL Never a dull moment, that’s for sure. Yeah, in this house rock reigns supreme. It has been the only constant in my life and has saved me from some very dark times. Tho it waxes and wanes in the music scene, it never has in my life.

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  5. bredemarket Avatar

    I’m a bit older—I remember Watergate—but I lived through this also.

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  6. Brian Scott Avatar

    Love this, hate the labels. Gen what? Why? I once learned (was taught) that labels are divisive so, I don’t know what I am, nor want to but, this says it anyway 🙂 I’m not really sure which label I’d wear anyway, they only applied to that quiz game …….. erm….. it had segments you had to collect? 🙂 😉

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    1. JeanMarie Avatar

      Trivial Pursuit! Ah… good times. 🙂

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      1. Brian Scott Avatar

        Thank you, I’d forgotten 👍😳

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  7. Ankur Mithal Avatar

    Loved the collection and recollection…

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  8. Bronlima Avatar

    I live in a different World. Had to look up Gen X in Google and found out that I am in fact a Baby Boomer. However, these are just names….. lived through it all, appreciated all and still am! Maybe I am a Boomgen?

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  9. Jessica Moore Wilson Avatar
  10. GP Avatar

    I’m a Boomer, not GenX, but I sure enjoyed all the memories you listed!

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Thanks! ☺️

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  11. traciesulpazo Avatar

    All this feels just like yesterday, am I right? I just heard a couple days ago “Saint Elmo’s Fire” came out 40 years ago. How is that possible? I feel like I just snuck into the movie theater to see it at the age of 15 last month! LOL. We are the best generation.

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    1. AKings Avatar

      I feel the same way. Just like the song “Jessie’s Girl” by Rick Springfield. Takes me back to that summer in my youth when everything was all right. ☺️

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  12. firewater65 Avatar

    Stop using past tense. We are still here.

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  13. Not all who wander are lost Avatar
    Not all who wander are lost

    Great post!!! So many memories!

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Thanks ☺️

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  14. leggypeggy Avatar

    A Boomer here remembering all that plus protests.

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  15. S.Bechtold Avatar

    Joneser here. I was stationed at Edwards when Challenger went up. Saw the B2 at the back gate – unidentified at the time, worked with NASA there too. Left my tour in Germany November 1989. Wasn’t in Berlin but watched all the Ladas suddenly arrive in W Germany. Heard Welcome to the Jungle for the first time on AFRadio. Saw and used MilNet before I left Germany. It was some pretty cool times indeed. Thank you.

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Thank you for sharing your story. Must’ve quite the experience in your shoes.

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      1. S.Bechtold Avatar

        It was long ago and I swear a different galaxy. It was lucky misfortune that I ended up there at all. But the memories brought me a smile 🙂 I hope you have many today!

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      2. AKings Avatar

        Thank you. Your comment already made me smile ☺️.

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  16.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    Been there, seen (all of) it… But somehow it feels like a different life then. Did we reincarnate into this sh*tty paralel universe or what ? Or was it US (GenX’ers), were we the ones who ruined everything? Obviously something got wrong after 80’s and 90’s, don’t you think ?

    Anyway, as a GenX I must say I loved the article, sometimes with tears in my eyes, sometimes with a dirty smile in my face… Well done !!!

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Thank you so much. I don’t think ruined anything but it’s our turn now and we’re gonna fix the lot of it! ☺️

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  17. David Avatar

    Maybe this is why I look at the TV programmes in disgust and go back to streaming real people creating content of their real-life experiences on You-Tube – and I mean real people, not “influencers”

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Yup. I agree. I especially like the Fishtubers, they enjoy what they’re doing so much without any agenda except to have fun☺️.

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      1. David Avatar

        The 4WDers I follow are much the same. The trouble is that some of the American and Australian ones find YouTube sufficiently lucrative that after a few years they start buying new gear every year, end up with 3 newish rigs “for different types of trip” all of which have massive mods that are changed almost every year like a fashion, become 4WD influencers and rapidly lose their relevance to me with my limited $ NZ budget. Then I stop following them and start searching for a new start-up or those in other countries with budgets closer to my financial realities.

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      2. AKings Avatar

        It’s the same thing for Fishtubers. I think in their search for new content, they resort to just buying stuff.

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  18. paolsoren Avatar

    Using labels like gen x or boomer etc etc is a terrible way of excluding people who can’t find the label printed on anything. I know what year I was born, I know when my children were born but to tell the truth I really have no idea what your post was about. I know all the thing you mentioned but I do wish I wasn’t excluded so effectively from the conversation.

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Just a bit of fun, that’s all this was meant to be. But I forget sometimes how the world’s gotten a little more brittle around the edges. These days, it doesn’t take much to ruffle feathers—and here I was, tossing a few lighthearted words into the wind, hoping they’d land with a chuckle, not a complaint. No harm meant, no lines drawn in the sand.

      So to you sir/madam, and anyone else who might’ve taken it the wrong way—know this wasn’t about exclusion. Not even close. It was about sharing a grin, nudging people to look up from the gloom and remember that laughter still has a place, even now. Maybe especially now.

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      1. paolsoren Avatar

        I am sure you are right. But I still have no idea who is what.

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  19. Pearla Wilson Avatar

    Heck, yeah! We’re the best generation!

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  20. Michael DeStefano Avatar

    My wife and I are boomers. Yeah, that generation; the ones that’s presently eating up the entitlements. Anyway, she was in Desert Shield and Desert Storm. Thanks for working it into the montage.

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Thanks Michael. And please thank her for her service for me ☺️.

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  21. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

    As a gen x it makes me laugh that in the infographic all I ever did was whine or wear plaid! Linda 🙂

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  22. JeanMarie Avatar

    Proud to be an Xer. Great post.

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  23. Brett Austin Avatar

    Yup! I was able to see Iron Maiden and Judas Priest in concert at the same time. The opener was the “new” Guns’in’Roses. They played horribly and were actually booed off stage! Of course, the Guns’in Roses team didn’t take a liking to that so they mooned all of us from on stage. Glorious. Great Post!

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    1. AKings Avatar

      😂 that’s a great story! Thank you for sharing!

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    Anonymous

    Thank you for sharing I enjoyed every bit it.

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    Anonymous

    Love this article and I am a boomer, but to get all the stuff that was happening then in one hit, great!

    Liked by 3 people

    1. AKings Avatar

      Thanks ☺️

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  26. shaun tenzenmen Avatar

    For some reason your post brought to mind these lyrics:

    “I think I liked you better when you were sick
    I liked you better when you were weak and pathetic
    Now that you’re healthy, you’re just kind of a dick
    I liked you better sick

    Nostalgia
    I guess it’s just nostalgia”

    Living through those times was tough and until recently, I hated nostalgia. But life has slowed down a little now and that’s where I seem to dwell.

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    1. AKings Avatar

      The lyrics are interesting enough 🤔

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