When the World Was Young (And Then It Wasn’t)

I remember yesterday, when the world was younger—when everything smelled faintly of vinyl records and cigarettes, and no one had yet decided that being permanently offended was a lifestyle choice. The 1970s—at least the bits I can recall—were a curious time. Women’s hair were a towering work of architectural ambition, and the men? Well, they strutted about in bell-bottomed Levi’s like they were auditioning for a Bee Gees cover band.

By the 1980s, life was all moonwalks and mullets. Michael Jackson was king—not metaphorically, but actually—and every kid I knew secretly practiced the “Thriller” routine in their bedroom mirror. Simpler times, really. We pledged allegiance, we prayed before class, and no one was arguing about who should use which bathroom. There was a comforting lack of outrage. You just got on with it—spelling tests, BMX bikes, and trying not to die of embarrassment when your mother called you “my handsome boy” in front of your friends.

Then came the 1990s—high school. If you had a pair of Converse, preferably scuffed but not too scuffed, you were golden. None of these modern-day worries about “finding yourself” or “living your truth.” No, you just lived. And if you felt the need—the need for speed—well, you had Maverick and Goose for that. We hung out with friends all day long, laughed at things that probably aren’t even legal to joke about anymore, and life rolled on. Carefree, uncomplicated, and deliciously unfiltered.

College? A blur of books and my first real relationship—a whirlwind of late-night talks, stolen kisses, and the vague suspicion that I should probably be paying more attention to my coursework. But who had time for that when there were hearts to break and futures to imagine?

Then came the 2000s—a whole new world, promising global adventures and oversized mobile phones. Off I went to faraway lands, chasing work, experience, and—if I’m honest—pure, unadulterated adventure.

And then—9/11 happened.

Everyone remembers where they were. Me? I was sitting in a restaurant in Saudi Arabia, home country of the 15 out of 19 terrorists responsible for the attack, picking at a plate of kabsah—a local affair involving roasted chicken and enough spices to trigger an international incident. The television was on, and I—ever the picture of situational awareness—thought I was watching a new action movie. Until I saw those three letters—CNN. And suddenly, it wasn’t a movie. The world shifted beneath my feet.

To add to the absurdity, there I was, sitting in the middle of Riyadh, wearing a bright blue “Aim High, U.S. Air Force” T-shirt—a gift from a friend. Every head turned my way. It wasn’t paranoia; it was an instinctual, animal awareness that I suddenly looked like a walking foreign policy problem. I paid, left, and drove straight to the nearest embassy, where I was greeted by two .50 caliber machine guns and a confused-but-ready U.S. Marine. It was surreal—a world where everything that once felt simple and familiar now felt fragile and exposed.

A few months later, I went home—to beautiful England. Cold, hazy, foggy, wonderful England. But it wasn’t the same. Nothing was.

You see, there was a time when the world was young—when all you needed was a good pair of shoes, a pack of friends, and dreams that stretched as far as the summer sky. But after 9/11? The world grew older overnight. And no amount of moonwalks or Top Gun replays could bring back the innocence we lost.


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54 responses to “When the World Was Young (And Then It Wasn’t)”

  1. Girl Stuff Avatar

    I have vinyls!!!

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      1. AKings Avatar

        I am doing well thanks! How about you?

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      2. Girl Stuff Avatar

        I’m good Ty!! Where do you live?

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      3. AKings Avatar

        I live in Richmond, VA :).

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      4. Girl Stuff Avatar

        I’m outside of Boston, Massachusetts

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      5. Girl Stuff Avatar

        What’s your name

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      6. AKings Avatar

        Hi Jen! I’m Ariel. Nice to meet you!

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  2. michael raven Avatar

    I recall the moment. It was largely disbelief that what I was hearing on the radio was real (I was listening to news radio). I changed the channel and they were repeating the same things on a classic rock station. It was surreal.

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  3. Cheryl Batavia Avatar

    Thanks for the trip down memory lane! 😄

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  4. flytheraven Avatar

    I failed to go to work that day. And I worked with kittens and puppies. Literally. I went to work, heard all sides of every political view and noped my way home. No one could agree after 9/11. Now we live in a highly disagreeable world. I didn’t own converse until my late 20’s. I still really like them. Vans were the big deal when I was in high school.

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  5. believe4147 Avatar

    Gave an enjoyable trip down memory lane … enjoyable until 9/11 when everything changed. But then not everything … our God remains the same and in the changing times he still offers us peace and joy, and abundant life.

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  6. mark1408 Avatar

    ”enough spices to trigger an international incident” – made me laugh, possibly inappropriately…

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  7. signalman Avatar

    Then some of us went to fight the enemy only to discover, the enemy was, right before our own eye filled with lies.

    One day it will be a well known fact by us all, 911, well
    we did it to ourselves…..

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  8. Kathleen (Madame ATiA) Eberhardt Avatar

    I didn’t take the same journey. I had checked out at the beginning of the 90’s… quit watching TV… focus on college… computer programming and the humanities. Never boarded the mass panic buss, but did crumble emotionally under the weight of collective hate. Just checked back in last year. The world is really struggling. If we can agree on one thing, that’s it. Let’s fight our way to freedom is anything but?

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  9. snowpackjack Avatar

    Ah the 70’s and it’s cars. The automobiles of the 70’s will never come again. Killed off by the energy crisis, my Lincoln could transport some current models in the trunk, and a metal ashtray the size of a frying pan was standard.

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  10. mish54 Avatar

    I think you have been inside my mind.

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  11. Charles Cain Avatar

    good post ✔🤩

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  12. Helen Devries Avatar
    Helen Devries

    9/11…we were living in France and our Turkish builders had just installed the dish for the television. First of all we had Turkish TV and then it was tuned to a U.K. site…in time to see the attack on the twin towers.

    The two young men were cock a hoop…..the U.S. A. finally getting its comeuppance!

    They were far from being fanatical muslims….just two young men getting on with life in France…..but they were delighted.

    Then the boss arrived and was shocked.

    Did they not realise, he said, that these people dying before their eyes were not the movers and shakers…they were the ordinary people, people like themselves working for a living, who were not responsible for what the state did in their name, just as in any country.

    They should be ashamed of themselves.

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    1. AKings Avatar

      That is so true. Unfortunately, some people are being brainwashed into thinking whatever their leaders want. It’s mostly just greed for power and money that drives these “leaders”. I wish one day we can all sit down and talk about every people’s ideological differences and maybe try to understand each other. Thank you so for your comment Helen.

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  13. Herald Staff Avatar

    A well related, and relatable, story. Well done!

    –Scott

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  14. lisaapaul Avatar

    Wonderful story. It contrasts the simplicity of life back in the days of innocence to the crazy, fearful present. I can’t believe you were in Saudi Arabia on 911. Wow

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  15. roll on for pain relief Avatar

    Great Post 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

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  16. ShilohRose77 Avatar

    And playing outside until the street lights came on! 😝

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Hi Shiloh, I’ve got another story titled: The last Generation of Mad, Wild, and free Kids. Please check it out. Thanks!

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  17. Shaun Bradford Avatar

    I remember. And you are right, the world changed.😢

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  18. Mikayla Scotlynd Littrell Avatar

    Hi! Trying to grow my blog. Follow for follow back? I just followed yours. Sincerely, Mikayla Scotlynd Littrell (MetsMadness the blog)😄

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  19. Gumball Head World Wide Avatar

    Where have YOU been all my life? What a curiously intriguing mind you have (much alike mine). I look forward to reading more

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  20. niasunset Avatar
    niasunset

    First of all Thank you for visiting my blog. So, I have just met with you and with your blog. Your expression, “When the word was young…” impressed me. And exactly this is true. We all talk about about us… we are young or we are old.. Our only home Earth is getting old too. About the tragic and unforgotten 9/11, we were at home, I was ironing and my Love was watching sports on TV. Then suddenly the broadcast was cut off and the breaking news text appeared on the screen.. I left the ironing and went to the living room.. I was watching but I couldn’t understand what was going on… it was almost like science fiction… but it was real, I cried. I cried. I told “this is the end of the world”, I remember.

    Now, when I read your memories, I remembered. Yes, maybe not the end of the world, but the beginning of the change of our world. Our Old World… Not only in USA many things changed, in everywhere. As if, world and world people, they were all teleported in another world…

    Beautifully written, expressed, I hope and wish peaceful times for our old World… Thank you, Love, nia

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Thanks Nia, I appreciate your comment.

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      1. niasunset Avatar
        niasunset

        I liked your sensible and wise answer. Welcome and Thank you, Love, nia

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  21. Jessica Moore Wilson Avatar

    Love this. I was just talking with a friend of mine about how we miss the 80s. I loved my big hair and my Esprit bag, but as an adult the thing I miss most is being able to detach from the world – no phone, no social media, just me and no one needed to know where I was for a while.

    When 9/11 happened I was working in community TV, I had worked late the night before, took the morning off, slept in. When I went to the gym around 9, I saw the footage on the TV in front of my treadmill, and I could not wrap my mind around what I was seeing. When I got to work, everyone else was gone – wanted to be with family – and I ended up running a show by myself. Four church leaders got together once a month to talk about an issue. It was kind of amazing to watch them try to understand what had just happened and think about how to help people process it in real time. They were so kind to me, stayed with me while I programmed the show in, and made sure I could lock up and get to my car safely.

    I know the world has change so much since 9/11, mostly for the worse, but the thing I try to see each day is the kindness that real, normal, regular people still show to one another. It is often the thing that gets me through the day.

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Hi Jessica, thank you for your beautiful reply. I agree with you on we should be more optimistic about people. After all, we’re just trying to live and navigate through this wild and wonderful thing called life. :).

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  22. Michael B. Fishman Avatar

    Very nice essay. I agree that everything changed on 9/11. It was like the world and everyone got sick on that day and never recovered.

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  23. da-AL Avatar

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Hi! Yes, I’m interested in writing a blog post for your site. Thank you for giving me the opportunity.

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      1. da-AL Avatar

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  24. Ka Malana - Fiestaestrellas.com Avatar

    What a great post. You were in a very awkward place – at an awkward time- just to understate it. Well written. Wish I knew more about why you were in Saudi Arabia… but only if you wish to share that. Your T-shirt may or may not be a hint!

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    1. AKings Avatar

      I was working there :). Check out my post: “Heat, Sand, and Handcuffs: My Saudi Misadventures”.

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  25. Bronlima Avatar

    And today….. we continue to advance backwards!

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  26. Carol Avatar

    I was at work (Wall Street area) when 911 happened. My building shook so badly that I thought we were going down too. Shortly, we were in the streets with towels over our faces, trying to get home. All access to transportation was shut down, so we were on our own. I walked over the Brooklyn bridge, ash everywhere. What a day. Your depiction of the 70s and on brought a smile to my face. Indeed, those were the good old days. Thanks for sharing.

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  27. Cindy Georgakas Avatar

    Great memories into the past until.. 911~! 😢

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  28. stephaniesantosgrant Avatar

    What a wonderFuLL piece of writing 💫🩵

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  29. KikiFikar Avatar

    I’m always interested in knowing how others witnessed 9/11 or lived through it. My whole life is before 9/11 and after 9/11. It’s a day that changed everything here in NY for so many people in my world.

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    1. AKings Avatar

      I still remember the feelings, I remember being so upset that it brought me to tears.

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  30. KikiFikar Avatar

    I went back to read again as your post left me smiling with the MANY 70s, 80s, and 90s parts of my life. Miss the simplicity and sheer fun of those days! Thank you for bringing me back! Just love your blog and site.

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Thank you for your kind words Kiki ☺️.

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  31. vinodmm07 Avatar

    That was nostalgia overload ! Those were the days,simpler times , fewer needs. Shit happens I suppose, we just have to deal with it. Thank you for that whirlwind tour , much appreciated.

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    1. AKings Avatar

      Thank you. I’m glad to share ☺️.

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